||MY IDEAL MAN
My ideal man should be
madly in love with me because I won't have it any other way. I am a total
romantic at heart, so naturally, my ideal mate better be well versed in
the art of romance. Not flirting, but romance. And there is quite a difference.
I dig dignity. It is rare and priceless in a world that's so taken over
by images and put-ons.
So my ideal mate would
be one who can carry himself with dignity, someone whom the world can look
up to and admire and be in awe of. Frankly, I want a friend, philosopher
and guide, all rolled into one man. A combination of a father, friend and
a lover. I get turned on by a man who will lead me to light from the dark.
Doesn't that sound philosophical? The biggest asset that a man can have
is genuineness. I hate anything plastic or anything that's superficial
and can smell superficiality from a distance. My greatest necessity is
a hygienic environment. So I like men who are clean and neat and not ones
who leave their things strewn across the room or are dirty and don't wear
I am not brutally ambitious,
so my ideal man shouldn't be so ambitious that he forgets about our relationship.
Ambition is fine as long as it doesn't put a distance between the ones
you love. I don't like people who neglect relationships for work. Frankly,
besides these qualities I really don't know what to say. I honestly don't
know what my ideal mate should be like. I am not consciously looking out
for a relationship to happen. Of course subconsciously, we all like to
have a little romance in our life. I believe in a meeting of the souls
and emotional attachments between two people interested in being together
because that's what soul mates are all about. And an ideal mate is necessarily
a soul mate. If I meet a man and our souls connect then I might just get
emotionally involved. Compatibility too tops the list.
We may not share too
many things in common, but we should have a common basic principle by which
we lead our lives. Physically, the man should be handsome but not necessarily
tall and dark! He should be well dressed, not expensively but sophisticatedly
dressed. What I would also like in my ideal mate is that infuriating and
yet endearing quality, childishness. My ideal mate would be a little bit
of man and a little bit of child, rolled in one